| TO JAISWAL SOCIETY
Here, I ,Ashok Kumar Jaiswal, doing M.Tech from IIT Delhi wants
to give my views on our society.
As we know first objective of one should serve its nation. But
any nation has 3 main parts- soil, people and culture. But our country
has many cultures, which belong to different communities. To serve
our country, these communities should be integrated. But integration
can only be strengthening if and only if, each community strengthens
itself.
To integrate any community, first we have to see some shortcoming,
and its remedies. In my view, some following shortcomings r in our
society.
1. EDUCATION- Mainly girls education. As any society cannot be
moved ahead without girl education. Since only girl can give basic
education to her child and also create child’s character.
More ever they can contribute in development of our society. In
our society even boys education is not considered much since most
of our community people in business work. “One of my relative
said that he could not let his girl go for higher education due
to lack of educated boys”. Now u can think of status of education
in our society.
Education is needed for everyone whether he is from business background
or service background. In our society, many businessmen r doing
their business on small scale, education may provide them to broaden
their horizon. Education level should be such that every boy and
girl can stand on his or her own foot.
2.DOWRY- It is curse for our society. I don’t understand
this custom completely. One man takes dowry for his boy and also
has to give this for his girl, which is not c
omfortable for middle class. In our society, only 2 objectives
for a middle class man, first home, second (if he has daughter)
to collect money for her marriage. To fulfill these objective, whole
life is passed and he never think about himself and society development.
To remove this custom, all youth should come forward. If we can
create example then only we can expect the same for our next generation.
Some of elder people may give argue that dowry should be there
since generally girls r not given right in property. So I think
why dowry, why not property? Is the dowry is given in proportional
to the property and why it is given at the time of marriage. Are
the girl & boy going to be married, not able to create their
own world? If so, then we have to think about it.
These 2 factors r of the prime importance in my view. I think of
a society in which everyone thinks about other. But at present it
is not so, we have heavy competition b/w us. For this purpose some
people have to come forward. We have different jaiswals group all
over the country. First of all these groups should have good communication.
For the progress of any society money is the basic need. So we
can create a Jaiswal trust for this in which every Jaiswal should
contribute according to his strength. This trust can help needed
persons in our society. We have to think about others problems and
try to help them. For this purpose, all jaiswals should come under
one roof.
So I want to call our generation, our respected elders for this
purpose. Can we create an exemplary Jaiswal community, in which
no Jaiswal needed character certificate, only name is enough.
So to fulfill this objective, a great work has been initiated,
named www.jaiswals.com, created by Harish Kumar. Jaiswal, NJ, USA
& Ashish Jaiswal, New Delhi, which can be good medium to connect
every Jaiswal to other.
I request to all my group members to spread this message out all
over the world.
THANKS
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